Stephen Ministry

Become a Stephen Minister


Stephen Ministry is a big commitment. We know this. We know you are choosing to step up your game and get engaged with your spiritual life at a whole new level. We’re excited—we hope you are too.

You know the old saying that you get more than you give when you volunteer-it’s true. We can’t promise everything, but we can promise this—you will get more out of Stephen Ministry than you give. The training will stretch you. You will hone skills and develop new ways of being with people that will change your life. For good, I might add!

How do I apply to be a Stephen Minister?

Contact Beryl Schewe at or 952-929-3317 (x9035) to request an application. Once your completed application has been submitted to the Parish Office, we will then schedule an interview with you and our Stephen Leader Team.

Stephen Minister Training
Thursdays, November 7, 2019 - March 5, 2020, 6:00 - 9:00 PM, Dining Room

Stephen Minister Retreat Weekend
Friday, March 13 - Sunday, March 15, 2020
Saint John’s Abbey, Collegeville.

2019 Discipleship Guide Book

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Look in your mailbox for our new Discipleship Guide Book! Advertisers helped provide this service at no cost to our parish. We encourage you to think of them in the future as your needs arise. Contact for more information or if you are interested in advertising next year.

Please familiarize yourself with the OLG ministries and organizations located in the front of the book. An electronic PDF version of the Guide Book, which you can download to your computer, smartphone or tablet is available for your convenience.

Lenten Day of Mercy


Wednesday, April 3, 7:00 AM – 9:00 PM
Confessions offered from 7:00 AM – 9:00 PM. A soup supper available for all from 11:30 AM – 7:30 PM.

This year we are collecting items for the residents of Haven Housing, which provides shelter for victims of abuse. Please mirror God’s generosity by bringing an item for these families as they seek to rebuild their lives. They especially need winter gloves for children, flip flops, ear buds, lotions, bath/lotion sets, full-sized toiletries, and new twin-sized sheets.

Parishioners are also invited to assist the Middle School Service Club (MSSC) with a service project in the Dining Room from 8:30 AM to 5:00 PM.

Annual Report 2017 - 2018

Please find below a downloadable version of the 2016-2017 Our Lady of Grace Parish Annual Report. In the words of Fr. Kevin, “Let the reading of our Annual Report inspire you to deeper gratitude for how our parish carries out the mission of making Jesus Christ known and loved. Let our Annual Report be a way to ponder how you and your family might serve within our parish community.”


To download a copy of the 2016-2017 Annual Report click the image on the right or click here.

Stephen Ministry


Stephen Ministry FAQs

What is Stephen Ministry?

Stephen Ministry is a one-to-one lay caring ministry. Stephen Ministry parishes equip and empower Stephen Ministers to provide high-quality, confidential, Christ-centered care to people who are hurting.  

Who is a Stephen Minister?

Stephen Ministers are OLG parishioners trained by Stephen Leaders to offer high quality, one-to-one, Christian care to people experiencing a difficult time in life, such as grief, divorce, job loss, chronic or terminal illness, relocation, or separation due to military deployment. Stephen Ministers come from all walks of life, all sharing a passion for bringing Christ’s love and care to people during a time of need.

Why the Name Stephen?

In chapter 6 of the Book of Acts, Stephen was chosen to provide caring ministry to those in need. Since the time of the Apostles, caring ministry has been considered a hallmark of the Christian faith community.

Time Commitment

A Stephen Minister usually provides care to one person at a time, meeting with that person once a week for about an hour. Once a month, Stephen Ministers gather with their Stephen Leaders for supervision and continuing education. Oh…and don’t forget the training. It’s fun. It will stretch you. 


Training Dates:


Monday Nights 6:00 - 9:00 PM
November 27, 2017 - February 26, 2018

Tell Me More About Training

Stephen Minister training is an engaging, energizing experience that includes a mixture of lecture, video, group discussion, skill practice, and spiritual growth activities.

Stephen Minister training teaches principles and skills that equip you to provide high-quality, Christ-centered emotional and spiritual care to others.

You gain insight into the thoughts, feelings and actions of people who are hurting. You develop relational and caring skills you can apply to all aspects of your life. You deepen your faith as the Holy Spirit fashions you into a Christ-centered caregiver. You feel a special bond with those in your class — experiencing real Christian community.


“Bear one another’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”

- Galatians 6:2

What is a Care Receiver?

A care receiver is an individual who receives care from a Stephen Minister.

Do Stephen Ministers Care for People Outside of OLG?

Yes. Stephen Ministers often provide care for people in the broader community — relatives, friends, and coworkers of congregation members. We believe we are to receive all as Christ.

How Do I Find Out More?

Our Stephen Ministers are on deck after every Mass this weekend to answer your questions. 
To apply to become a Stephen Minister, talk to any of our Stephen Ministers or email Beryl Schewe, Director of Pastoral Care at 


Interested in Receiving Care?

Think a Stephen Minister Might Be Helpful For You?


“The Stephen Minister is there to walk with you through your crisis and to help you see that, with God’s love, you will be okay.”

All of us need a helping hand now and again. Sometimes life throws us a curveball and we just need a listening ear. Needing a Stephen Minister is normal. Plenty of our Stephen Ministers trained after being a care receiver and experiencing the listening compassion of a Stephen Minister. 

Most of us would rather offerthan receive help. And sometimes it’s really hard to reach out and ask for help. We get that. Admitting to ourselves that our life situation is a little overwhelming takes strength—we want to think we can do it all. 

Some important guidelines for this caring relationship protect both the care receiver and the Stephen Minister:

  • The relationship between a care receiver and a Stephen Minister is confidential.
  • Men are matched with men; women with women.

Stephen Ministry is for People Experiencing...

... grief, divorce, cancer, hospitalization, physical rehabilitation, long-term care, chronic illness, terminal illness, job loss, loss of a home, military deployment, the onset of a disability, loneliness, spiritual crisis, or other life struggles.

Are there Situations that Aren't Appropriate for Stephen Ministers?

Sure. First, we would not place a minor with a Stephen Minister. We also do not place people with dementia with a Stephen Minister. This may seem counter-intuitive, but remember the primary role of the Stephen Minister is to listen. Most families asking for a placement with a dementia patient actually want respite care, not a Stephen Minister.

Sometimes a family member will ask us to place a Stephen Minster with a parent. We’re happy to do this if the parent wants a Stephen Minister. But just as Jesus doesn’t foist himself into our lives unasked, we don’t foist ourselves on unsuspecting parishioners! We’re happy to work with families to see if we can provide support.

Request a Stephen Minister

Contact Beryl Schewe in the Parish Office (x106) or at 


Become a Stephen Minister

Are You Called to Become a Stephen Minister?

Stephen Ministry is a quiet ministry. We work confidentially one-on-one with people who need a little listening support. We’re not a flashy group. We don’t post great pictures of our meetings with our care receiver on Instagram or Facebook. We don’t Tweet about our ministry.

Each week our Stephen Minsters meet one-on one with their care receivers for about an hour. They listen. They encourage. They pray with and for their care receiver. They ask the Holy Spirit to guide them and their ministry. 


Sometimes Stephen Ministry can stretch us; take us places we might not choose. Our care receiver might have a terminal illness—and we might worry that we have nothing to offer. We do. We have ourselves. Nothing more. Nothing less. 

Our presence is our ministry. We simply show up. If we’re really good at Stephen Ministry, we show up and shut up. We let our care receiver talk. We let them tell their story. Without judgment. Without commentary. Ours is a listening presence. We honor another by listening to their stories, hearing their pain and their struggles and being with them in “it”, whatever “it” is. 

Our job is not to fix. Most of life’s painful struggles are not fixable. Our job is to listen, pray and offer a compassionate, non-judgmental ear. We help. Jesus heals.

Ask a Stephen Minister

Stephen Ministry Class of  2017.  Front row (left to right): Shon Jordan, Catie Lindquist, JoAnn Hesse-Weiers, Jenny Vellon, Heather Buller. Back row (left to right): Brody Chirpich, Deacon John Bourke, Molly McHugh, Patti Smith

Stephen Ministry Class of  2017. Front row (left to right): Shon Jordan, Catie Lindquist, JoAnn Hesse-Weiers, Jenny Vellon, Heather Buller. Back row (left to right): Brody Chirpich, Deacon John Bourke, Molly McHugh, Patti Smith

Think you’re called to be a Stephen Minister? We’re listening! Our Stephen Ministers will be present after every Mass with application materials and to answer your questions, help you discern, ponder whether this might be the time for you to train for Stephen Ministry. Pressed for time and can’t stop after Mass?  Call Beryl Schewe in the Parish Office (x106) or at

Something to Think About

Melissa Miller
Director of Community Life & Social Justice

If you are familiar with the Spiritual and Corporal Works of Mercy, you know that we are called to comfort the afflicted, visit the sick and pray for the living and dead.  As a Stephen Minister for a couple of years now, I feel truly blessed to help my care receiver work her way through a difficult time. We meet once a week and talk about the things that are on her mind.  I don’t try to solve her problems; I listen, empathize and pray for and with her. I’m also not a psychologist or social worker, so I don’t try to help her understand the cause of her distress or bring in resources for her.   What I do offer my care receiver is my willingness to listen to her without judging, as well as my faith that God is with us in our suffering.   

Many of our care receivers are coping with difficult medical diagnoses which limit their mobility in some way, so we as Stephen Ministers bring them a connection to the outside world.  But the most important thing that I bring to my care receiver is the reminder that God is love, and that love includes her.  These visits help both of us. We grow in our faith and hope together.  We affirm each other in the dignity that we have as a beloved child of God.  Something to think about if you need a Stephen Minister or feel called to be one.